"You are so fat" "why are you so fat" "you are too fat already"
Joke or no joke it still hurts. For a girl, who wants to be called fat all the time?
But the question is, am I really THAT fat ?
After all, according to my BMI I'm in the low normal range. So am I still considered fat?
Apparently, fats is the layer underneath the skin. And fat is commonly used for people who are overweight.
So society calls me fat for someone who is normal weight like me. So are they gonna criticise those who are overweight/obese?
If society thinks I'm fat, is it true that there is no room for people who are above the level of underweight? Must everyone be underweight?
Different people have different metabolism rate. Every body works differently. If you are skinny, do not expect people around you to be skinny like you. If your are obese, do not also expect the same thing.
I am not directly or indirectly saying anyone. But in society. It is true that everyone uses fat to freely without considering others feelings.
Fat is a sensitive word to people who are not confident with their weight. And it may heavily demoralise them or in another way make them work harder. But everyone works differently. So I suggest people please mind your words. Think before you act. Because some words you say may crush someone or make someone's day brighter.
On the side note: I will . And I must. Show the people who called me fat. That I will lose my current weight to underweight. It's a statement I live to it.
