Tuesday, April 9, 2013

School? Friends? Hmm?

Sometimes I really wonder if what people said were true. "Don't trust your poly friends" , "your true friends are your secondary friends" , "friends first than boyfriend cause when boyfriend leaves friends will always be there" .
This are the many few that I have heard all around.
And it's been interpreting in my head for many times and I came to a conclusion that it could maybe be true. To a certain extend.
Haha! Sounds so complicated . But yes. Life is always complicated (:
So anyway. I totally agree with the boyfriend thing. Like right from the start.
But just to clear things. NOT all friends will be there for you when you break up. Only the handful. I mean, yes they may comfort you. But would they be there for you? Hmm.. I guess not right? They may say, are you ok?! What happen?! Don't sad already luh! His a worthless person! You will find a better one.
But who really comes down, sit with you and talk and just ... Listen?
Not many will.

Don't trust your poly friends? Going to my second year now. And I must honestly say. The right word isn't trust. Yes you can trust your poly friends. What's the differences with poly, secondary, outside, inside, underground wtv friends you have.
They are all your friends. What I found out its, in poly it's really really competitive. Everyone JUDGES. I assure you. EVERYONE. E-V-E-R-Y-O-N-E .
What you wear, how you look, what bag you bring, what make up you use, what shoes you wear, how skinny you are, what school you were from and especially the grades. Omg. I swear to god. The grades the GPA are just the killer to your friendship.
I really don't get it. GPAs are just numbers, like our o levels, mid year exams, end year exams in secondary. Why couldnt we share out gpa openly like all our secondary exams? It's just really weird. Up till now I still wonder.
So what If the person has a high GPA. Or a low GPA? They are still studying the same subjects as you right? Doesn't mean you shouldn't be friends with them. doesn't mean they are not smart. And importantly, it doesn't mean you can judge them. So stop judging!

And like what many says, you do not need many friends in life. Just the ones who are true to you is more than enough. (:
I'm thankful for my IJ friends. And don't judge chij girls, they are just wild and happily more open than many others. I definitely support people who are open minded! Haha.
Okay! Goodbye!

Ending my post with my cutest boyfriend (: